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Helen's avatar

This really makes me look back on my relationship with a guy who always praised me for my "not like other girls" mentality and behavior without really realizing what he was doing. I very much felt like I was molding myself to fit the ideal he put forth, not explicitly, but more and more subtextually as time went on.

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Erin's avatar

Really resonates with me. Especially the thought of filling a role. I've been doing that since I was a kid! Like - who am I, even??

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